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Wear your heart on your sleeve on January 20th

INTERNATIONAL DAY OF ACCEPTANCEJanuary 20, 2010
To achieve social acceptance of disability.
To honor the late Annie Hopkins, founder of 3E Love and creator of the International Symbol of Acceptance. 

Thank you to everyone who has spread the word about the International Day of Acceptance on January 20th. You all have been so passionate about telling others. In fact, I have not met 9 out of 10 people who have bought from the site in the past few days. That’s crazy!

It is amazing to think that we still have a week before things are really going to slow down on my end, and that the ten thousand who have been invited to our Facebook Events could very well quadruple over the next few days with your continued help. I even had to order another 10,000 temporary tattoos and 200 garments to print on this week to ship out.

All because of you. Thank you…

Please continue to help me with my labor of love. Forward the email newsletter you may have received, click the SHARE link at the end of this blog, and most importantly…

Wear your heart on your sleeve January 20th.

Tell the world you embrace who you are; a person with rights, who has an opinion, who has interests, who has goals and who loves life; a person who is empowered to make a difference in the world and not be without a voice in society. You are not living disabled, you are living.

To our supporters: Join us in telling the world that you are accepting of people with disabilities. As our parents, siblings, relatives, spouses, children, lovers, coworkers, teachers, personal assistants, friends, and anyone else – you also have a role in our culture and life. And you can have an impact on the future if you demonstrate your acceptance to others.

Let’s join together to:
Embrace diversity. Educate your community. Empower each other. Love life.

Start the conversation of acceptance on January 20th with the International Symbol of Acceptance: Wear a t-shirt,  sweatshirt or hoodie,  use a bag. Pin a button to your jacket, chair strap or backpack, ink a temporary tattoo onto your hand, draw it on if you have to! Ask your friends to join us as well. For a final touch change your profile picture on Facebook to the symbol. Get people talking!

When a person asks about the symbol, “What’s that mean?” It’s your chance to tell them your story or what the symbol’s significance is to you.

And maybe next time they will look at the antiquated traditional symbol a little differently.

Wow, right? You can tell I’m passionate (or just crazy). I’m overwhelmed and excited and grateful. It means so much to me on so many levels. It’s a huge cluster of emotions bouncing around in my head.

First, I am overwhelmed with the thought that hundreds, maybe even thousands, of strangers will be wearing their hearts on their sleeves on the day that my sister Annie passed away. She was my sister, best friend, partner in entrepreneurship, and one hell of a person. No one like her. No one. I’m not just a proud big brother saying this, but I’m saying it as someone who has been reminded over and over again by all the people who were positively affected by her presence.

With every tattoo, t-shirt, button, hoodie or bag out and about on January 20th, her legacy and message will grow a little more. She can never be brought back to life, but her one of a kind symbol will be around long after everyone reading this is gone. In a way she is still with me and all that we sought to do together can still happen. I guess that’s the best I can ask for a year after she was taken from us so rudely and far too soon.

The excitement every hour of opening my email to another 3E Love order is like a magical pill to get me through the winter that is trying so hard to remind me of last year’s nightmare.

It just makes me smile. This labor of love is just what the doctor ordered.

I’m also so overjoyed with just how positively people have responded. So many encouraging emails from people telling me how much the symbol means to them and how cool the company is from both a business and disability awareness perspective. I always knew what a great opportunity this was for me and Annie. But how were we going to attack something so broad?

I remember the first brainstorming sessions fondly. We were going to sell t-shirts wherever and however and sit on Myspace all day messaging strangers. Ha, what a business plan! Then there was the great debate whether to be a private LLC or a non-profit. She was absolutely adamant that she did not want to ever ask for a donation or rely on pity. And I agreed. She just wanted to sell t-shirts, write books, consult businesses, and shock the world. If people were down with us, they were more than willing to join! And I’ll never forget us arguing over the E’s. There was originally a fourth one, and what it was escapes my memory so it’s a good thing we abandoned it.

We realized we wanted to start a company and clothing line behind a one of a kind symbol that could really make a positive impact for disability awareness in the States and Worldwide. Start slowly with t-shirts and buttons and go from there. Maybe one day make an honest living and employ others like us. All while doing something we love.

After she passed away, I had my doubts. That I couldn’t possibly do this without her, maybe that I shouldn’t. I write with joy because I believe now more than ever that our original goals not only could happen, but they will happen with time. I’m so thankful for all my friends that encouraged and even pushed me to do this.

There’s no better feeling than to find something you enjoy more than anything and to put your all into it.

Thanks for being a part of it and helping me on my journey! Thanks for ordering, thanks for the emails and thanks for reading. Thanks to Mom and Dad for being patient with my evolution, housing the inventory and screen printing equipment, and not taking away my paycheck even though I haven’t sold a single insurance policy since last year this time. Thanks to all of my friends and family who have made this a reality with their emotional, time and financial investments.

I still need your help, though…  just because I haven’t slept in three days organizing orders doesn’t mean you are free of duty!

Speechless, yet I’m still typing.

I’m so thankful that I’m selling t-shirts for only $10. My old business professors are shaking their heads in disgust. They would accuse me of sacrificing profit margins for unsustainable growth and being too highly leveraged. I know, I know. But, I’m not in Champaign anymore, and there is no variable for love in the cost-benefit analysis formula. I just want you to wear your heart on your sleeve on January 20th :) At any cost.

SO GET INTO IT.

Loving life,
3E Stevie

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12 comments to Wear your heart on your sleeve on January 20th

  • Stevie~
    Great Blog….count me in as a Follower of the Blog. Maybe that means I’m a “Flogger”….

  • Scott Nance

    Stevie…
    I have a tough time keeping up with blogs but I promise to do my best. Congrats on yet another thing to keep you busier. :)

  • Jutta

    I am in as well.

  • David Novalinski

    Stevie, You are an amazing writer, entrepreneur, and most of all ‘Big Brother’. You inspire me daily. Thank you for all you do. Most of all, thank you for being my friend.
    Dave

  • Leslie Hopkins

    You’ve made your mother very, very, very proud! Love You.

  • Great story! 3E Love rocks so much!

  • Millie Day

    Stevie,

    I just happened to receive a message from a friend about Wear Your Heart on Your Sleeve.

    It caught my because not only do I have a 23-year-old daughter with Cerebral Palsy and uses a wheelchair for mobility, but her Dad’s birthday is January 20th…the day of your sister’s death.

    My daughter’s name is Danielle. She writes poetry as a hobby and is always on FB. In fact we even have more in common, her twin sister just graduated from UIUC and her younger sister is now attending at Champaign as well.

    Do you have any gatherings? Danielle doesn’t have many friends and I would love to find a way for her to meet more people with her interests, etc.

    Would love to hear from you….3E inspires me :)

  • Carrie Campbell

    Thank you for what you are doing! Thank you for pushing yourself to keep up with the flood of orders! Thank you for helping people understand that just because you have a disability does not mean you are a helpless soul! I will proudly spread the word not only on Jan. 20th but always. Love, Carrie

  • thank you so much for inviting me to your web site. it raises social awareness very well. since being on face book, i have become part of the crowd, doing my best to help others like me and you. Sail sydney is one of my main concerns. it is a sailing charity for the disabled, also affiliated are welcome uk, welcome sailsbury and a few others. they are fundraising for the trip of a lifetime to sail to sydney as part of the ” crew”. all who join the sites will be helping as well. there are places available on the trip later this year, also places for people in australia to join in on the yatch’s return journey.

  • margaret stuart

    my husband has post polio and is near quadrepledgic. he plays on a wheel chair softball team here in nebraska. i cant wait to bring your business up in a meeting. unfortunatly i have no contact with the team until april. good luck on your international day of acceptence!

  • Cathy Kletcke

    Stevie,
    I work at Shriner’s Hospital for Children in Chicago.I am so proud of what you are doing. We have alot of children in wheel chairs. We do a lot of spinal cord rehabilation at Shriner’s. I have my t-shirt on today and going to spread the word. I am going to hand out tatoo. Thank you. Keep uo the GREAT work. Cathy K

  • AMY R

    Found you site through Facebook friend. You are awesome. Sorry I missed out on January 20th. Next year. My 10 year old daughter is severely physically disabled and uses a wheelchair…love the design. Will order the family shirts soon.

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